A Milestone Boudoir Session

In the journey of life, milestones often beckon us to pause, reflect, and celebrate. For one courageous woman, turning 40 wasn’t just about embracing a new decade but embracing herself entirely. Meet Samantha, a vibrant soul with a story of self-discovery and empowerment that she decided to tell through the lens of boudoir photography. Join us as we chat about her experience, exploring the nuances of self-love, body positivity, and the transformative power of embracing vulnerability for her milestone boudoir session.

The Role of Boudoir in Samantha’s Self-Love Journey

Samantha’s journey with boudoir photography with Le Boudoir Studio began nearly a decade ago, a wedding gift for her husband. But this time, the spotlight was on her. “This time the shoot was more for me! I chose outfits and themes that showed off more personality I think.” Samantha’s path to self-love hasn’t been without its challenges. Battling Polycystic Kidney Disease, she grappled with insecurities stemming from societal norms and personal struggles. Yet, boudoir photography became a tool for reclaiming her narrative. “I don’t know that I will ever feel great about my middle section, but I do have areas I love like my long, lean legs, my hair and my face,” Samantha shares. “We were able to find outfits and poses that helped hide my belly but show off those other things!” If you resonate with having certain physical insecurities (and let’s be real, who honestly doesn’t?!) know that you are in excellent hands with our team! We work one-on-one with every single client to create a session that is completely tailored to you to hide anything you don’t want to show off, and feature all the parts you absolutely love!

 

I have something called Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD) which causes my kidneys and liver to develop hundreds of cysts and those organs are massive as a result. In time I will likely need a kidney transplant, but in the present the impact to my self-esteem is the biggest challenge. I get constant questions from strangers about who assume I am pregnant, and while fashion is embracing more body types these days, my own body type isn’t one anyone is likely to see often unless it’s for things like maternity clothing. When I got back the photos I was thrilled to not feel like my giant organs were on display and just get to see beauty without the distraction.

 

Embracing a New Decade: Turning 40 with Grace

Age, often perceived as a barrier to beauty, took on a new meaning for Samantha. Embracing her 40s meant embracing life’s journey—a journey marked by love, family, and personal growth. “Age is so weird,” Samantha muses. “At 25 I felt so upset about aging, but turning 40 feels welcome! I think doing boudoir beyond your 20’s, those years society tells you you’re most valuable and worthy, just helps cement that there is beauty in life at all ages. Being 40 is awesome! I’ve had a great life full of love and adventure and I can only hope that will continue to grow with time. ” Through boudoir photography, she discovered that beauty knows no age, and every phase of life deserves its moment in the spotlight. Samantha’s perception of beauty underwent a profound transformation over the years since her first boudoir experience. From societal rigid definitions to boundless new possibilities, she learned that beauty lies not in conformity but in authenticity. “The first time, I think I felt more like ‘sexy’ was more rigid in its definition,” Samantha reflects. “This time though, it seems like there is an understanding that sexy can be anything and anything can be sexy with the right enthusiasm and attitude.” We fully believe that your boudoir session is what YOU make it. If jeans are what makes you feel good, bring them! If you want a more conservative and cozy style photos, we can do that too! Boudoir is whatever makes you feel good and showcasing your individual style.

Navigating Vulnerability: Overcoming Apprehensions

As an introvert, the prospect of baring her soul in front of the camera was daunting for Samantha. Boudoir is a vulnerable experience, and stepping into the studio can come with a bundle of nerves. This is totally normal! Samantha provides some excellent insider tips on how to overcome it and ensure a positive experience. Armed with determination and the support of loved ones, she decided to embrace vulnerability with grace. “I am a firm ‘fake it ’til you make it!’ practitioner,” she admits. “Once I got to the studio I just tried to think about how things might go if I was super confident and tried to act that part.” Having the right mindset plays an important role during your boudoir session. Leaving your problems and every day thoughts at the door is key. The studio space and pampering time allows you to step into a new version of yourself, placing you on the pedestal for the day, and just enjoying this “me” time. Think of the situations and experience that gave you a huge boost of confidence and tap into that as you pose. I will also show you photos on the back of my camera throughout your session to fuel that confidence even more!

The Impact Beyond the Lens: A Journey of Self-Discovery

Beyond the just the images, the boudoir experience left an indelible mark on Samantha’s sense of self. “While the pictures are beautiful, I actually think the experience is the most impactful part!” she shares. “It’s hard not to walk away from that without feeling more confident, especially when you consider that other than makeup, there isn’t much added in—no retouching yet, no fancy clothes, just you!” I can’t tell you how many times we hear ladies say, “Wow, that’s me?!” when we show those first couple of images from the back of the camera. We don’t use any fancy smoke or mirrors…just expert posing, lighting, and styling to highlight all the amazing features you already have. Yes, it is YOU and we are here to show you that you are already so beautiful and now you can truly see that through our lens.

It’s a very vulnerable position to be in and you have to trust Miranda to put you in your best light. Seeing the results in her camera is a bit like hearing your own voice, but instead of thinking “eww I hate that,” I very much felt like “wow, look at me!”

Amidst the poses and camera clicks, it was the moments of laughter that resonated most with Samantha. In embracing the awkwardness and her true self, she found a way to let the nerves subside and her personality shine through. “Some of the posing can feel silly, and being mostly naked with someone you don’t really know can be uncomfortable,” Samantha admits. “When I opted to just accept the awkwardness and laugh about it, I think my personality came through.

Advice for the Hesitant: Embrace the Journey

To those considering a boudoir session, Samantha offers a resounding call to action. Reflecting on her experiences with Le Boudoir, she emphasizes the professionalism, respect, and empowerment woven into every session. “Do it!” she urges. “I’ve been lucky enough to shoot with both the original owner, Jodi, and now with Miranda. My experiences were both so memorable and positive. Le Boudoir is so professional and I love that it is a woman-owned, woman celebrating company. Miranda is an excellent cheerleader and was so respectful about my insecurities. I truly couldn’t have asked for a better experience.”

Throughout our lives, moments of self-celebration shine brightest. Through Samantha’s story, we’re reminded that beauty transcends age, shape, and circumstance. It’s not about conforming to societal standards but embracing our unique beauty with pride. So, to all the Samantha’s out there, may your journey be filled with moments of laughter, empowerment, and unbridled self-love.

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October Client Spotlight

October 15, 2023

Women who book a boudoir session with us have many different reasons for doing so. Some choose to celebrate a milestone in their life (getting married, maternity boudoir, birthday, and so much more). Another reason for some to celebrate is a weight loss journey.  Many of our boudoir gals want to celebrate their new bodies and reward themselves for achieving their amazing weight loss goals.

Today, we are featuring an inspirational story featuring a recent client, Kristi. She underwent gastric sleeve surgery in January of this year and told herself when she lost 100 lbs she would book her first boudoir session. We are so honored to have the opportunity to work with Kristi, and to share her story!

How did you find out about boudoir and Le Boudoir Studio?  When I was getting close to my goal I did a google search for boudoir photographers in Arizona and Le Boudoir was one of them that came up. I loved the options and the Phoenix location so I booked!

What was the thing that finally got you to book a session? I have always wanted to do one of these shoots but I have never had the confidence. I had gastric sleeve surgery on 1/27/23 and told myself when I lost 100 lbs I would book… well- that happened a lot faster than I thought it would so I was able to book for my shoot in September just 8 months post op.

What was your relationship with your body/your self confidence before your photo session? Even though I have lost a lot of weight I am still very self conscious. I’d look in the mirror and still see that 353 lb woman from 8 months ago. It’s a hard transition to see your body physically change so quickly. My brain can’t catch up to my body.

Did having professional hair and makeup included in the shoot help? What impact did that have? You also brought in so many amazing outfits! How was the process shopping for those with your recent weight change?   Professional hair and make up was honestly such a high weight lifted off of my shoulders. I wouldn’t even know where to begin if I had to do that myself. I am not gifted in that area…. I began shopping for outfits almost immediately after I booked my shoot! I had no idea what I was comfortable in and what would look right on my body. The very first outfit I tried on I ended up using in my shoot. I had no idea I’d feel comfortable in a 2 piece like that. On top of that- for the first time in my life I was able to walk into a Victoria secret and buy something that fit me (the black dove) ! It was a HUGE milestone for me so I had to include it. When picking out the other outfits I was surprised when I really liked the red one. It was the one that made me the most uncomfortable but also made me feel the most sexy! The second I tried it on I knew I wanted to use the accessories with it.

How do you feel the session has impacted you and aspects of your life so far? The session definitely brought out a side of me I didn’t know was hiding. It made me feel fierce! 3 weeks later and I still feel fierce.

What was your favorite part of the session? I honestly had a really great time getting to know the crew. Miranda and the girls made me feel so comfortable and we were able to chit chat and laugh like I didn’t just meet them that morning.

I know you originally came in to celebrate losing 100 pounds after weight loss surgery. A lot of gals looking to do boudoir say “I need to do ___ before I book” mainly with reasons surrounding weight. What would you say to those hesitant about booking when it comes to having a hard time accepting the current physical state we are in and how boudoir could help with that?  Do it! Now! Don’t wait. I was in that same boat. I have wanted to do a boudoir shoot for years and I never took that step because I didn’t feel comfortable. The shoot will bring out the fun, flirty, sexy side of you and you’ll build a confidence you didn’t know you needed! The whole process is so much fun. Picking out your outfits and getting your hair and make up done and then the shoot. You will leave that room with a smile on your face feeling like you can conquer the world.

What led you to do the surgery, how that has affected you mentally and physically, and what other goals you want to accomplish through your journey?  I have been overweight for as long as I can remember. Even in elementary school. I tried diet after diet and I’d lose weight but plateau and gain it back. I had many comorbidities;  PCOS, High blood pressure, and all of the things that come with those. Medications and horrible symptoms I live with daily.  My body was tired. I was tired. My Dad died when he was only 68 years old. Many other family members were very young too. I didn’t want to be like that so I started this journey in February of 2022. That is when I went to my first consultation. The pre-requisites were extensive and I wasn’t sure if I was going to go through with it… until 2 months into my journey my Mom died. She was only 64. This solidified my decision and I spent the next year completing test after test appointment after appointment until I was finally able to have my surgery on 1/27/23.  The physical changes have been the most exciting. I weighed the highest at 353 lbs, and as of today I am 237 lbs.  There are little things I failed to appreciate… crossing my legs, being flexible, fitting behind the steering wheel of my car without my belly touching the wheel, breathing… being able to do anything without getting winded. I am a singer and feeling the changes in my breath support. It has been insane! Mentally it has been the hardest. Body dysmorphia is real and there are times I look in the mirror and I still see 353 lbs. I still see the big girl who was always there. I still hesitate before sitting in a plastic chair wondering if it will hold my weight. I still look for the bigger shirts to hide body parts I used to hate that I don’t hate anymore. Old habits are hard to break. I started this journey wearing a 6x top and i am now wearing large/extra large tops. Goals: I am only 42 lbs from my goal weight and I am hoping to meet that before my 1 year post op. I have already been taken off of all of my meds for blood pressure, All of my blood work has come back within normal ranges. I am healthy. If I never lose another lb I’ll call all of this worth it just for that reason in itself.

If you were to do another session, what would you want to do for session 2.0? 

I think I would do another session in more outfits out of my comfort zone.

If you have shared your boudoir experience with others, what have you told them about it and what have been their reactions so far?  I have had SO much positive feedback. Many have asked me where I went. Many have commented on how confident and happy I look.

Do you have any advice for other individuals considering a boudoir shoot?  Do it! Now! Don’t wait. The most important thing is to do it for yourself. It can be fun to do it as a gift for someone else… but it should be for you!

From Kristi: “This is a message to my fellow plus size ladies…. If any part of you is considering doing a shoot like this you should absolutely do it. Whatever is holding you back, throw it out the window! YOU are beautiful. YOU are sexy. YOU are fierce. YOU are a bad bitch and don’t you forget it!”

You can follow along with Kristi’s journey at @thriving_n_survivng22

We want you to know that Le Boudoir Studio is here to help you every step of the way. From the moment you book, we work with you to help create a stress-free and knowledgeable experience. We provide complete Session Prep and Style Guides with so many amazing places to shop (both local and online). Through our Questionnaire we get to know all about you to help customize your session, including what features you want to show off, and those that you are still learning to love. With our expert posing and guidance, lighting techniques, and editing style (including a lightly airbrushed finish) we want you to come just as you are!

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